Things to know when choosing or becoming a good tarot reader
61The first thing a ‘Great’ card reader needs to know
The first question my grandmother challenged me with many years ago when I asked her to teach me to read Tarot was: ‘What makes a great card reader?’ I was young and inexperienced and believed many false hoods about much of what I wanted to learn. Most of these ideas I had gotten from what was little more than fantasy books. I went through a litany of answers to answer her question, psychic ability, long hours of study, dedication to the art, years of practice, and on and on, most of the answers not so much wrong as just not the answer she was looking for. She just sat at the table her old lined face somber, her head nodding with each answer letting me know that though I spoke in English and not Cajun French she understood what I was saying. She gave no answer of her own, instead when I ran out of answers and fell silent she sent me out on a small quest.
She told me “In the next three months go to every card reader you can find in the city and surrounding towns and get a reading. When you finish come back and we will see if I can teach you to read cards.” Being young and arrogant I was actually a bit put off over the request. I wanted to learn to read cards not have cards read to me. I wanted to know the ‘secrets’ I wanted to have the ‘gift’. I wanted the ‘power’ of knowing. Yet I knew my grandmother, and I knew she would not change her mind, what’s more I knew that she would know if I lied. She would know if I didn’t find every reader that I could. She would know if I tried to cheat. So I did as she asked and search out all the card readers I could find. It was no easy task. Back then card readers didn’t advertise, some in fear of losing their place in society, others in fear of laws forbidding such workings. But I was persistent and I found many of them.
When I returned three months later she asked “Who did you like the best?” I told her. Then she asked “Why?” I wasn’t sure that I knew. I had no solid answer. The reader had been good, patient, insightful and gave me excellent advice, but so had some of the others, some had been awful, even frightening but the majority were similar. I had no reason to choose the person other than the feeling that she actually seemed to care that I make the right decision. I told this to my grandmother and she smiled. “That’s it,” she said, “that is what makes a great card reader. You have to actually care; you must want the person to make the right decisions for their life.” She pulled the cards from her apron and turned over the first card. This card means…. my education began.
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Just had a reading yesterday with a MARVELOUS reader. She was not only interested in ME, her first comment was that she would take as long as I needed and I only need pay what I could afford. She was spot on with so many things in my life. Great Hub here.
Thank you for sharing. She must of been a wonderful Grandmother. She sounds very wise.
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Denise Handlon Level 8 Commenter 2 years ago
D.G.-well written. Short, to the point and had me hangin' on to 'what is going to happen next'. I liked it.
So...I'm smiling now, because, 1. tarot cards have been part of my path of self discovery and 2. your info was right on re: the last card reading I had. She really was interested in what was happening and did not rush the session when it was over.
I've had many card readings and one of the most memorable was from an old woman who had made her life career reading down in New Orleans. Yes, I believe you when you write that it was not advertised way back when, for fear of societal repercussions.
I sat with this woman in a section of the tea room curtained off as my, (then) b.f. sat in another area waiting for me. I was uncomfortable b/c he was in hearing distance and the trip we had taken together revealed to me a decision that I would be breaking up with him.
She began her reading by telling me that he was the king of hearts and I was the queen, when I leaned over and gently put my hand on hers to stop her. I looked her into the eyes and said, "Can we stop for a moment. I'm not interested in finding out about this relationship. This rel is not going to last. I have some specific questions and I want to know if I can ask you those."
She saw and felt my sincerity and reshuffled the cards and began again, as I asked her if I was on the spiritual path I was intended to be on.
We had a long and wonderful discussion and reading; she understood that I was not there as a run of the mill 'tourist' in the Fr. Quarter, that thought it was cute or a fad to have a reading done. Rather, I took the experience seriously, as one of the many means to guide me in my life.
I was left, as I said earlier, with some valuable info and shortly after the return, broke up with my b.f., moved to Alaska and met another person who opened my eyes to another side of spirituality through some of the teachers in CA.
Apologies for my rambling...your piece brought out some wonderful memories of my readings. Your grandmother sounds like she was a wise woman. Thanks.